What more do you need? If someone seems uncomfortable or is pulling away from you, back off! Why do some couples swing? So which one is right for you? One of the requirements everyone has to meet is to complete a detailed registration profile.
This means that if someone says no, we need to respect their wishes and stop touching them.
However, they also accommodate those couples who want to swing.
Partners should be equally involved in all aspects of the encounter, unless they specify otherwise.