San Buenaventura received ejidos through the help of a missionary in the time around 1734 ANTO Santa María de Payas 1735.
These ideas have deep roots, but humans are much more complex than that.
You should definitely show that you are interested in getting physically intimate but back off if you feel the other person is not reciprocating.
So pleasure your woman, she will definitely be in the mood for some more and thank you for it in more ways than one.